How to Make Her Come in 5 Steps

Wouldn’t you love to know how to make her come? To be able to give your woman a mind blowing orgasm? Of course you would... All men would! Unfortunately not all men know how, but anyone can learn!

There are many ways to give a woman an orgasm. Apart from a great foreplay there are many different techniques you can use. To give you a step by step guide though, I wanted to this article with, by Gabrielle Moore, the author of Female Orgasm Secrets Revealed.

How to Give Her an Orgasm

How to Make Her Come

Quick question... Is it really that hard to give a woman an orgasm? Many men say it’s difficult. But many also claim that it’s very easy… IF you know what to do that is. There is a big IF there! So the question is, do you? Do you know how to make her come?

Any healthy, loving and lasting relationship has a great sex life as one of the key ingredients. If you look around, it’s probably easy to tell which couples are truly happy together. They are the couples that still look at each other with lust in their eyes! So what’s their secret? They are probably BOTH sexually satisfied in their relationship.

A lot of people know that women don’t reach an orgasm as easily or as quickly as men. What many don’t realize is that this does nothing but build sexual frustration. And sexual frustration manifests itself in many negative ways in a relationship; until one day, you both wake up and realize that you no longer have passion in each other and in your lives.

The good news is it’s really not hard at all to make a woman reach an orgasm. But you both have to work at it, which, if you think about it, is part of the fun as well!

How to Make Her ‘Come’ – A Step-by-Step Guide

by Gabrielle Moore

Step 1
Engage in a lot of foreplay! Foreplay is very important because it helps her relax her mind and make her more focused on the lovemaking at hand. It’s also a great way to bond as many women associate foreplay as a man’s way of taking time and ensuring sex is not just a physical act but about intimacy.

Foreplay can start hours or even days in advance and is really limited only by your sexual imagination. As you keep this ‘sexual tension’ high, you’ll find that it’s actually easier to bring her to an orgasm once you do engage in sex.

Step 2
If foreplay is the ‘primer’, oral sex is the next big step. Many women actually claim that oral sex is the ONLY way they can reach an orgasm so if you both want it to be that way, then don’t resist.

When you do go down on her, don’t rush it. Show her that you really love her by lavishing her genitals with your undivided attention. Enjoy the journey as much as the destination so to speak.

At the start, just tease and lick softly and lovingly. Once she’s focused on that part of her body, increase the tempo. When you notice that her breathing is getting faster and harder or if her legs are becoming taut, move your attention to her clitoris. Tease it by drawing small circles around it with your tongue and then apply more pressure and lick faster.

If she gives any indication at all that she’s really turned on, remember this: DON’T change anything. Keep the tempo of what you’re doing and she’ll reach her orgasm soon enough.

How to Make Her Come

Step 3
If your tongue doesn’t bring her to an immediate orgasm, don’t despair. Don’t forget that your fingers can be put to good use too! Use your index finger to ‘trace’ the outline of her labia. Be sure to touch her gently. This is guaranteed to electrify her body. After this, place your index and middle finger together and then draw circles around her clitoris.

Pay attention to her body (is it in a pleasured, relaxed state or is it pulled taut like a string?) to gauge just how turned on she is. Don’t forget to pay attention to her moans and groans as well.

You can alternate using your tongue and fingers to stimulate her clitoris and just like what’s advised above, if she indicates something that’s really turning her on, just keep doing it!

Step 4
If clitoral stimulation has not brought on an orgasm yet, then try G-spot stimulation! Assuming that she’s already hot and wet, slowly insert your index and middle finger inside her womanhood, palm up. Once inside, position your fingers to the “11 o’clock”. Slowly try and locate a small bump or swelling (like an engorged clitoris). Once you find this spot, congratulations… you’ve located the elusive G-spot!

Step 5
You can stimulate the G-spot in many ways. You can tap it with your fingers, draw lazy or frenzied circles around it, or flick it wildly like a light switch. If you wish, you can use your thumb to stimulate her clitoris while stimulating her G-spot. This will surely give her an orgasm to be remembered!

To learn more about other techniques to stimulate her, I highly recommend her book Female Orgasm Secrets Revealed.

How to Make Her Come

So are you going to try this on your lady? I hope you found this guide helpful. If you have any other great tips how to make her come that you would like to share, please let me know. Just click here to send me a message.

Feel free to tell me about your experience using this step by step guide. I would love to hear from you!

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